What do you want to be when you grow up? There’s still time, you know. Here are some key lessons about discovering and living your calling, based on themes from the book Callings by Dave Isay:
- The Sweet Spot of a Calling: A calling lies where your skills, appreciation for your work, and the positive impact on others intersect. Finding this balance requires tuning out societal expectations and listening to your inner truth.
- Emerging from Hardship: Callings often stem from profound or painful experiences that reshape priorities, such as turning tragedy into purpose.
- Courage and Defiance: Pursuing a calling frequently means challenging the status quo and persevering despite resistance or obstacles, fueled by hope, love, or defiance.
- Support from Others: External nudges from others can lead to unexpected realizations about one’s calling, showing the relational aspect of personal growth.
- It’s a Journey, Not a Destination: Identifying your calling is just the beginning. The real challenge lies in the effort, sacrifices, and perseverance required to pursue it.
- Timeless Discovery: A calling can emerge at any stage of life, proving it’s never too late to find purpose and fulfillment.
- Fulfillment Over Wealth: Callings are often more about integrity, meaning, and hard work than financial gain, underscoring the value of a deeply rewarding life over monetary success.
The core message is that living your calling is an ongoing, courageous journey of aligning with your values and purpose, often leading to a life rich in meaning and connection.